What About When Girls Neg Themselves?

[Steven105]

What do you guys usually do or say when a girl makes a negative comment about herself? The most common is probably weight. Even some of the hottest girls do this.

[Johnny]

I don't say anything. I usually just leave.

I don't hang out with girls like that.

If it's a friend that says that. I tell her "You're beautiful don't say that"

[Jordan Harbinger]

Ditto there. That shit gets SO old... Red flag!

[Bart S]

But really, isn't this just attention seeking behavior? And if so, (correct me if you think i'm wrong) I don't really think we should call "attention seeking behavior" a red flag - cuz so many women do it.

To me, its just them seeking some sort of attention.

Which I agree, you don't want to encourage it. Disqualify the behavior, to which then she has to qualify herself to you.

If that doesn't work. Bluntly, change the subject and don't entertain the subject again.

[Rob K]

I find women who neg them selves to have a bad attitude in general. They have a bad view of life, a bad view of themselves and will have a bad view of you in the future. These women will constantly be looking to you and their friends to build them up only to tear themselves down again. Like Johnny said, it gets very tiring after a while. Find yourself a woman who has value, and life will be simple.

Plus, these women will be the first to cheat if you leave them alone for any period of time. They will run to the first guy who tells them that they are beautiful, they will start negging you and your relationship and hop in the sack with this other dude for some "Attention".