17.Playful,mature or both?

[gaolaofei]

Hi,im 17 years old this year and i live in singapore(somewhere in asia.You see im kinda of a huge guy at my age,and tons of people have mistaken me for being in my 20s.Which i find is pretty cool as i like older women,so you see in my interactions with them i always try to act more matured and most of the time they buy it but when they finally ask me about my true age it somehow just affects them that i am too young for them.So my question for you all is that at my age would you be more playful? mature? or playfully mature?Looking forward to your replies my friends.

[Jordan Harbinger]

man, you won't be able to start any real relationship if you're lying about something as material as your age. I'd say be playful or mature, but most importantly be yourself. If she can't handle your age, then she's not for you. If you're just going for a one night stand, then fine, tell her you're 20, no harm done. If you want to DATE her, you need to be honest, and find someone who doesn't mind.

-Jordan

[gaolaofei]

Hey thank you so much,your reply helped and meant a lot.But now you see i have another problem,recently i have started to go help out at my mom's stall which sells food and there this really cute girl who i have noticed quite a while and she even came to buy food from my stall a few times.So my question is when do i approach her like when shes buying food from me? or when shes leaving then i approach her?And how do i approach her?Like wouldnt you find it weird when im serving her and then i try to hit on her

[Juin]

Hey Gao! I think if she keeps on coming back to the stall as a regular customer then you can start to joke around with her, like maybe comment on her hair or how she looks different at a certain time.
Maybe ask her about why she come to that hokker centre or whatever so often, friends,lives nearby.
Try to just be friendly at first then break into the flirting, since your relationship with her started of as customer-shopkeeper.