http://hub.pickuppodcast.com/ This is the Pickup Podcast Hub, a forum for developing your life based on the PUA community. en Wed, 08 Sep 2010 23:53:38 GMT vBulletin 60 http://hub.pickuppodcast.com/images/misc/rss.png http://hub.pickuppodcast.com/ http://hub.pickuppodcast.com/showthread.php?6804-S3-bad-habits-and-old-habits&goto=newpost Wed, 08 Sep 2010 21:28:42 GMT In less than 24 hours, I spoke with 2 different girls that really stuck out. Earlier in the semester, Ashley felt the need to ‘borrow’ a fraternity... In less than 24 hours, I spoke with 2 different girls that really stuck out. Earlier in the semester, Ashley felt the need to ‘borrow’ a fraternity hoodie of mine and take pictures in it (didn’t know she would take pictures, but 1st mistake). When I asked for it back she said she’d wash it. I’m not going to turn down somebody washing my clothes, so I figured she would be an adult and give it back (2nd mistake). Once she washed it she’s just dropped off the face of the earth whenever I mention it. The only reason I was still kind of in contact with her was because I wanted my hoodie back. I know she’s just desperate for attention and but I am tired of this bitch pushing my buttons and playing games with me. I’m finally getting said hoodie today, and I will make sure this child knows why I’m not happy. I’m have this bad habit of assuming that everyone will treat me the way I try to treat them. So I’m going to enjoy giving her a little bit of her own medicine. Yes, it’s not right, but it feels fantastic.

As for old habits, another girl felt the need to let me know she recently became single, and wanted to know what I could have a visitor. If this looks like a home run, then you are reading this right. This is a girl I dated in high school and I am still on great terms with, so I’m sure that will be a great weekend…

Whenever one door closes another opens I guess…

https://stothe3.wordpress.com/2010/0...nd-old-habits/ ]]> Share your experiences Zeek http://hub.pickuppodcast.com/showthread.php?6804-S3-bad-habits-and-old-habits http://hub.pickuppodcast.com/showthread.php?6803-List-of-funny-text-names-for-a-girl&goto=newpost Tue, 07 Sep 2010 15:05:50 GMT So I was thinking to expand on the textbook/podcast on names to call girls. I always have fun with it. I know this is fail but I haven't bought the book yet. I plan to tho. Just paying down a ton of dept right now and not treating myself properly. So excuse me if any of the ones I used are in the book.

Sunshine pants, twinkle toes, pumpkin sparkle, schmoozy Suzie, goober are a few.. What do you guys have? ]]> The Toolbox Convo http://hub.pickuppodcast.com/showthread.php?6803-List-of-funny-text-names-for-a-girl http://hub.pickuppodcast.com/showthread.php?6802-Hello-Friends&goto=newpost Tue, 07 Sep 2010 11:34:19 GMT Hello Friends Hello Friends ]]> nicole11 http://hub.pickuppodcast.com/showthread.php?6802-Hello-Friends http://hub.pickuppodcast.com/showthread.php?6801-Sending-mass-texts&goto=newpost Tue, 07 Sep 2010 01:30:18 GMT So I've been having a problem with girls responding to my texts lately whenever I send mass texts. If I send a unique text, these girls respond immediately. If I send the same text to 25 girls, almost none of them text me back. I have confirmed that girls hate receiving mass texts.

An example is from this past weekend, I sent about 4 mass texts to 20-30 girls. There's one specific group of 8 girls. I sent the same text to all of them because I wanted to hang out with all of them. Only one of them replied and said "thanks for the mass text". Another girl has nicknamed me "Mass Text". But what am I supposed to do? I don't have time to send 30 unique texts to girls. And I invited all 30 because I know at most only half will show up. I invited these girls to the pool, dinner, and parties.

I feel like if I only text one of the 8 girls in the same social circle to hang out, the other 7 will feel left out. I thought mass texting was a good way to include everyone, but apparently girls hate it

Maybe the solution is something as simple as saying "Hey (girl's name) party tonight" instead of "party tonight" (my texts aren't that short and boring, but i'm using that as an example) ]]> Ask AJ and Jordan TSquaredUA http://hub.pickuppodcast.com/showthread.php?6801-Sending-mass-texts http://hub.pickuppodcast.com/showthread.php?6800-Missing-all-over-the-shop&goto=newpost Mon, 06 Sep 2010 21:44:35 GMT Sorry guys, been away for awhile

I'm going through a bit of a mare at the moment, gone cold, I'm, which out blowing my own horn, amazing at getting details and real details at that, it not like i'm getting blown off with fake details, I am, though, having a horrible time getting meets after the in field meet. I dont know where I am off base.
I feel i'm getting good connections, I mean i have women taking me out of the groups I meet them in to talk alone, then get contact details, then nothing...

Throw ideas at me, I will sieve through them and find which ones apply.
Thanking you ]]> The Toolbox SamD http://hub.pickuppodcast.com/showthread.php?6800-Missing-all-over-the-shop http://hub.pickuppodcast.com/showthread.php?6799-Does-this-sound-like-a-good-¨first-text-message¨&goto=newpost Sun, 05 Sep 2010 21:50:18 GMT Hey guys, looking for some input here. There´s this girl who I haven´t seen in years and recently found her facebook. She was, as far as I can tell,... Hey guys, looking for some input here. There´s this girl who I haven´t seen in years and recently found her facebook. She was, as far as I can tell, really into me, but because back then I was a total pussy, I couldn´t get with her. Now it´s time for redemption.

I was thinking about sending something like this (I´m using the principles of the TXT book):

First message:

¨haha, don´t tell me that is true that you suffered from depression after I left school?¨

I´m anticipating a ¨who´s this¨ response, to what I plan to answer: ¨your enemy from school!¨

Now, this is kinda corny, but that´s the purpose, right? (playful tone, it engages her emotions, it may compel her to respond¨

Please tell me if it sounds like a solid start. If not, I´d appreciate some ideas. This girl I´m talking about used to be in my class, and we used to fight for dumb things.

Cheers :D ]]> The Toolbox DMZ http://hub.pickuppodcast.com/showthread.php?6799-Does-this-sound-like-a-good-¨first-text-message¨ http://hub.pickuppodcast.com/showthread.php?6798-Jordan-Harbinger-killing-it-on-The-Gentlemen-s-Club&goto=newpost Sat, 04 Sep 2010 19:10:04 GMT Jordan was a recent guest on my podcast. I think you guys'll dig it.

http://www.gentlemensclubpodcast.com/post/1035966108 -- iTunes ]]> The Lobby baco http://hub.pickuppodcast.com/showthread.php?6798-Jordan-Harbinger-killing-it-on-The-Gentlemen-s-Club http://hub.pickuppodcast.com/showthread.php?6797-Facebook-what-s-the-point&goto=newpost Sat, 04 Sep 2010 10:29:45 GMT I wanted to ask, as one looking for game, what role does facebook play? Does it allow u to pick up or find game? Does it add value to u or devalue... I wanted to ask, as one looking for game, what role does facebook play?
Does it allow u to pick up or find game?
Does it add value to u or devalue u?

I found that many of my friends on facebook did not necessarily help me achieve my goals. So if I were doing a number of for e.g. charity appeals, many would not even respond/donate.
I feel that facebook is really a way for people to keep on eye on you, rather than help you, I may be wrong. Maybe it’s the way I have come across. I have reduced my friends from over 200 to around 80. I'm not sure how this would be viewed.
How can one use facebook to the maximum advantage? Do the number of friends u have add any significance/value to you?
Maybe a podcast on it by AJ and Jordan may be worthwhile on this topic. ]]> Ask AJ and Jordan zia http://hub.pickuppodcast.com/showthread.php?6797-Facebook-what-s-the-point http://hub.pickuppodcast.com/showthread.php?6796-Were-they-hitting-on-me&goto=newpost Sat, 04 Sep 2010 04:37:56 GMT So the other day i was at the movies and I went to get some popcorn and the girl helping me said she like my shirt (just a Tshirt with a funny saying... So the other day i was at the movies and I went to get some popcorn and the girl helping me said she like my shirt (just a Tshirt with a funny saying on it) I said thank you so this other girl working there comes to help her and then she started talking to me asking me what movie I was going to see I told her and she was like oh yeah its a funny. (I go to theater alot and I never have the workers make conversations with me like these two were) and I got me thinking that maybe they were hitting on me (I don't get hit on alot to know if it's really happening or if it just my imagination)
What do you guys think ]]> The Toolbox ricky l http://hub.pickuppodcast.com/showthread.php?6796-Were-they-hitting-on-me http://hub.pickuppodcast.com/showthread.php?6795-How-do-you-fend-them-off-(probably-a-good-problem-to-have)&goto=newpost Fri, 03 Sep 2010 21:34:04 GMT Why do girls keep trying to be my boyfriend, and what am I supposed to say to them when I want to keep living like I do? So the pickuppodcast and... Why do girls keep trying to be my boyfriend, and what am I supposed to say to them when I want to keep living like I do?

So the pickuppodcast and txt game and everything works... really well. I hang out with girls, they like me, I build a ton of attraction, do rapport, seduction, and have sex. But now I'm in this weird situation where I've become kind of close to this person and I have a hard time expressing what's going on in my head (I like you, you're great, but there are a million hot girls out there and I want to keep it on the move for a little while).

Is the solution MLTR? How do you seriously pull off MLTR? Do I want that? Will I get a weird reputation from my peers if they find out about it?

Thoughts? I feel like a jerk when she cries like I've done something wrong. Is there a way to build a simpler relationship that doesn't come to this? ]]> Ask AJ and Jordan j-d http://hub.pickuppodcast.com/showthread.php?6795-How-do-you-fend-them-off-(probably-a-good-problem-to-have) http://hub.pickuppodcast.com/showthread.php?6794-Hooray-Men&goto=newpost Fri, 03 Sep 2010 17:50:04 GMT Bill Maher on Feminism ]]> The Lobby San Francisco Dan http://hub.pickuppodcast.com/showthread.php?6794-Hooray-Men http://hub.pickuppodcast.com/showthread.php?6793-At-the-Bar-Inside-the-Bar&goto=newpost Fri, 03 Sep 2010 07:21:23 GMT Hey guys,

Long time listener and first time poster. Can't thank you enough for what you guys do, I really enjoy the podcast and the info you've provided me is really appreciated.

Anyway, I've got kind of a specific question that I was hoping to get your insight on (and anyone else who might be reading this). Something I've found tricky is engaging at the actual bar inside a bar or club. It's a great place to start conversations since you're right next to lots of women who, if they're buying drinks themselves, can potentially be good targets. Opening at the bar seems very natural but I've found this situation to be a difficult. Direct can easily come across as desperate. Situational naturally leads to a conversation about drinks/customs behind buying drinks and alcohol which works sometimes but often comes across as cliche in a way.

I was wondering if you guys had any tips to approaching that situation of opening the girl next to you or behind you at the bar inside a bar/club. This particular situation has a very unique social dynamic (you go from dancing and being social to staring at someone silently hoping they stare at you next), and I was hoping to get some insight from you guys on how to use it your advantage. ]]> Ask AJ and Jordan SebastianCh http://hub.pickuppodcast.com/showthread.php?6793-At-the-Bar-Inside-the-Bar http://hub.pickuppodcast.com/showthread.php?6792-the-three-S-s&goto=newpost Thu, 02 Sep 2010 20:32:08 GMT if yall are interested check out my blog. i'm trying to get back to writing about what i want to write about (too many english classes with boring-ass english papers in my time)

S3: sports, sex, and getting smashed
https://stothe3.wordpress.com/ ]]> The Lobby Zeek http://hub.pickuppodcast.com/showthread.php?6792-the-three-S-s http://hub.pickuppodcast.com/showthread.php?6791-hey!&goto=newpost Thu, 02 Sep 2010 14:53:03 GMT hey guys!
I've been listening and reading a lot of PUA over the last year or two, and I figure that I don't take enough action or apply it at all. So, it's about time I joined up :]

Edit: actually I suppose I haven't written enough here lol

As I said, too much theory not enough action. I live in grim London and I'm at the point where I've shut out the 'friends' who hold me [and themselves] back. So, I'm left with a couple people (only one I see often), and I can't really think up any ways of meeting new people 'comfortably'.
I find David Wygant's 'talk to everyone' approach more natural for me, but I don't see any real opportunities to use it because everyone seems to go out their way to avoid social contact here. I might be answering my own question, but I'm looking for stuff to do (e.g. food shopping) to get me outside and as a backing to talk to strangers.

I'm turning 18 soon and I need to exercise more
I'm interested in anything to do with creation - music, moviemaking/scriptwriting, design, etc.
I know it's obvious to join a gym but I'm strapped for cash atm ]]> crimsonviper http://hub.pickuppodcast.com/showthread.php?6791-hey! http://hub.pickuppodcast.com/showthread.php?6790-ex-gf&goto=newpost Mon, 30 Aug 2010 03:01:28 GMT Ok. So I went out and got a g/f. It didn't work out. She dumped me for whatever. I kinda beat myself up about it for a while but I'm cool now. I deleted her # from my phone but we're still FB friends. We stayed friends for a bit after but all of a sudden, she stopped talking to me. I assume it's because of a guy and I'm cool with that if she doesn't want any problems. I don't wanna cause her any problems and I could see where it might be weird.... But she's one of the few people I've ever met who has kind of been in the same situations I've been. She always gives me a lot of good advice and helped me keep a good head on my shoulders.

Since she quit talking to me, I wonder if I should just cut my losses and erase her from my memory or is it OK to send her a msg and ask her why she doesnt talk to me anymore? I know it makes me look like a needy bitch but I really only want to be friends with her and I need her advice about some shit. I would even be OK with her telling me that she has a new guy and she doesn't wanna F it up.

Anyhow, is it OK to send her a message to ask why she doesn't talk to me anymore (as long as I dont want her back in a relationship)? ]]> Ask AJ and Jordan GaryK http://hub.pickuppodcast.com/showthread.php?6790-ex-gf